Stop Lover Boys!

Rather than updating the previous post concerning the Dutch decision to raise the minimum age for prostitution, I’ve decided to devote a new one to putting the affair into some proper context.  The politicians who are quoted as being for this new law all seem to be male white knights and they include the far right Dutch ‘Islamaphobe’ Geert Wilders.  The background is a recent moral panic that has taken hold of the Netherlands, and one that is in fact emerging in the UK and Germany as well. In Holland, it is known as the ‘lover boy’ phenomenon.

 It appears to be a spin off of the sex trafficking panic itself, and follows the same tried and tested pattern of feminist lobbying based upon primal fear mongering. It employs a selection of harrowing anecdotes, together with incredible statistics seemingly plucked straight out of the air.  Lobbying then results in quickly passed anti-sex laws that just so happen to be supportive of the sexual needs and interests of the lobbier.  What is most interesting in this particular sex panic, is that whilst including all the usual suspects – trafficking, child abuse, the internet, another contemporary ingrediant is thrown into the witches brew.  ‘Islamaphobia’.  Hence the eager support of Geert Wilders and his now very influential populist parliamentary party.

Although it tends to be only expressed openly in right wing blogs, the underlying tacit assumption behind the ‘lover boy’ panic is that this is about muslim ‘paedos’ forcing their underage girlfriends into becoming prostitutes.  In the Netherlands, the figure of 5,000 is being bandied about.  Notice how the figures quoted by sexual trade union lobbyists regarding numbers of alleged victims is always nice and round -  5,000.  Not 3,843 or even 5,200, but 5,000.  Just as the number of women who were going to be trafficked into the world cup was a nice, tidy, and eminently quotable, 100,000. 

Currently, I can only spend a few hours a week devoted to this blog and to anti-feminist work.  Sadly, I am not in a position to deliver a researched critique into this figure or the truth or otherwise of the lover boy syndrome.  All I know is that laws that harm men (and that also restrict the freedom of young women and girls) should be based upon rigerous study, investigation, logic and argument.  Instead, it seems that a particular Dutch woman – Anita De Witt, has ignited this panic with a few anecdotal reports of alleged victims, set up a lobbying group, and within months convinced the Dutch government that a new law targeting men, ‘protecting the kiddies’ (which now includes 20 year old women), as well as having undertones of ‘stopping the Islamification of Europe’, is a sure fire vote winner.

Anita De Witt

Anita De Witt

But just one look at the homepage of her quickly formed lobbying group – StopLoverBoysNu, leads me to conclude that it most probably is the usual load of pants involving feminist self-rationalisations for stopping younger females from taking advantage of their own youth and beauty to earn money.

Just take a look at the following ‘ways to spot a victim’ that appear on her campaign group’s front page and tell me that these don’t apply to 90% of girls the world over at some point of their adolescence. Psychologists and health professionals normally refer to them as the typical symptoms of undergoing puberty in the 21st century, rather than ‘probable victims of lover boys’. In which case, if we lived in a civilised, non gynocratic white knight society, women like Anita De Witt would be locked securely away in asylums, or at least prosecuted for unfounded hate speech against men (and young women), and/or possibly even attempted rape  :

  • A sudden obsession with sexs and deviant standards.
  • A sudden interest for particular boys or older boys/men, lots of new contacts
  • Extra social behaviour ( they don’t want you to find out).
  • Fight with the people who she loves the most (family, friends etc.).
  • Problems at home.
  • Changes emotions very quickly, doesn’t see how situations can change.
  • Tired and loses weight (has to work at night)
  • Wears different clothes and make up, often very clean and challenging.
  • Psychosomatic complaints.
  • Selfinfliction.
  • Low self asteam, no realistic self image.
  • Easy to influence, can’t or don’t dare to indicate borders.
  • Gets calls all the time.
  • Sometimes have multiple cellphones, takes them with her all the time(even in the shower and to bed).
  • Taken from en to school by someone with a car or motorbike.
  • Depressive.
  • Starts smoking, or smoke more.
  • Drink, smoke weed or other drugs, doesn’t eat well.
  • Lot’s of money or expensive things(via loverboy or lovergirl)
  • Going out in extreem ways(most of the time it’s her work place).
  • Hangs out a lot, there are friends that fill up the emptyspot at home.
  • Extremely happy (cover up what’s really going on).
  • Withdraw a lot, sudden crying fits, rage (agression).
  • Exaggerated stories, acting tough, seeks attention that way.
  • Behaves different at other places (different worlds)
  • Irregular schoolvisits, got other things to do, too tired etc.
  • ‘Walkaway-behavior’
  • Avoid subjects like prostitution.
  • Seems like having no identity
  •  

    Even being ‘extremely happy’ is a definite sign that your blonde 13 year old daughter is being forced to have anal sex with strangers for 20 euros a time by gangs of muslim paedos.  It must be good to live in a nation as progressive and generally fucked up as the Netherlands. A decade ago the most liberal society on Earth, now caught up in the twin anti-enlightenment nightmares of feminism and Islamification… and the inevitable muddied and retarded white knight far right reactionary politics. I can only attribute the results of the survey that Dutch people are supposedly the most content in the world to the fact that they are probably all smoking the weed.  That Dutch men are fleeing their country on a scale that dwarfs even the white flight of the Brits, is a far more comprehensible reality.

    Craig’s List Stops ‘Adult Service’ Ads

    The online marketplace Craigslist has closed the controversial “adult services” listing in the US.

    The company has not said why it took the decision, but it has faced an ongoing barrage of criticism from attorneys general and advocacy groups.

    They have claimed the listing was a virtual tool for pimps and prostitutes.

    Another notable victory for the feminist and American conservative closet pederast alliance.

    SITE UPDATES

    Restored photograph and added useful links and resources to the bottom of my key article ‘The Sexual Trade Union’. (If you have any links or resources yourself to share, please leave them in the comment section below the article).

    Dutch Femi-Rapists to Increase Minimum Age for Prostitution to 21

    And so it begins.  The feminist campaign to raise the age of consent to 21 and beyond has started in earnest. I thank my loyal and well-informed reader ‘Highwayman’ for delivering me the depressing news that the Netherlands is set to increase the minimum age for sex work from 18 to 21.

    Of course, this event has far wider implications than merely the age and the beauty of the prostitutes gazing out from the windows of the Amsterdam red light district.  Once again, look behind the visage, and feminist laws such as this reveal the entire strategy and truely ugly selfish motivation of the sexual trade union.  Feminists in the Netherlands could just as easily make an outright ban on prostitution as raise the minimum age to 21.  But the attraction of a move like this lies not only in making paying for sex with prostitutes less tempting to men (because young and nubile sex workers are forbidden) -  the greater motive is in setting the bar ever higher in what is acceptable for older women to control the sexuality of younger females, and to rule those younger women out of  bounds as sexual objects for men.

    As often detailed on this site, little more than a century ago the age of consent in most countries was 12 or 13.  Contrary to what some conservative anti-feminists have written recently, pre-marital sex with ‘minors’ was not generally forbidden as such, although out of wedlock pregnancy was.  In fact, at this time there were estimated to be over 100,000 prostitutes in London alone, with probably the majority of them being under 18.  Feminism originated in (successful) campaigns against child prostitution.  Laws were passed that were lobbied for almost entirely by feminists (and fought against by anti-feminists, who at that time still had balls) decades before those same feminists had won the right to vote, or even in some cases, even called for the right to the vote.

    Nobody could argue against laws preventing 12 year old girls hanging around street corners offering themselves for sex.  But 100 years ago, the deceitful modus operandi of the trade union was the same as it is today.  Those early feminists and suffragettes, such as Emmeline Pankhurst, could have lobbied for simple laws prohibiting under 16s from engaging in prostitution.  Instead, they successfully lobbied for a rise in the age of consent itself.  Again, despite the erroneous historical readings of 19th century social history by certain members of the men’s rights community, there was little support for the idea at the time (outside of feminist self-rationalisations) that 14 or 15 year old girls could not consent to sex.  The justification used by feminists was that an age of consent set at 16 would prevent child prostitution. 

    Whether or not it was foreseen at the time (in the UK and USA) that such laws would later prosecute millions of men for having consensual sex with teenage girls, the magical age of 16 as the age of full sexual responsibility for girls was achieved, even in European countries such as Germany and Italy in which the age of consent itself remained lower (but in which feminists likewise had set certain sexual limits relating to the age of 16).

    Fast foward to the last decades of the 20th century and the feminist sexual trade union successfully defined 18 as the limit for both prostitution and pornography, enshrined in international treaties that included the United Nations charter of ‘children’s rights’.   They achieved this with the assistance of America’s unique conception of a ‘minor’ (what a disgusting and revealing term) being somebody under 18 (Highwayman made an interesting comment about California’s high age of consent perhaps being specifically responsible for the propagation of this meme, for example through the medium of Hollywood).

    Thus, even though the age of consent is still only 18 in a small number of American states and an even smaller handful of backward Islamic nations, the idea has spread around the entire world that there is something ‘questionable’ about having sex with a 16 or 17 year old, even in countries such as Spain and Argentina, free until very recently from the scourge of feminism, and where the age of consent is still 13.  In fact, given the merging of the virtual with the real worlds, there now is a very real danger everywhere in having a sexual relationship with a girl over the age of consent but under 18.  Every country in the world apart from Somalia and the USA has signed the UN charter on children’s rights which defines child pornography as any sexual representation of a ‘minor’ (the USA lobbied for the anti-sex elements of the children’s rights charter, but then refused to sign up to it because it would have also forced them to stop putting 16 year old black kids on to death row).  Therefore it is now still legal to have sex with a 13 year old girl in Spain (if you can avoid being lynched), but if you happened to text her 17 year old sister in any way describing the act, you could be prosecuted for creating child porn. 

    The ‘virtual child pornography’ elements of the UN children’s rights charter were an attempt to fuzzy the border between the age of 18 and beyond, ‘childhood’ and adulthood.  But here at least was the idea that the pornographic model had to look under 18.  With this new prostitution law in the Netherlands, the common perception will quickly gain ground that even those aged 18 -21 are now unable fully to consent to sex, and even non-paid for sex with 20 year old women will soon become tainted with connotations of ‘paedophilia’ and ‘child abuse’.

    Other countries will no doubt be quick to adopt this law – to bring their ‘child protection’ guidelines up to date with the Netherlands (in fact, it is amazing to consider, and a testament to the power of 3rd wave feminists and their sex abuse industry, that less than a decade ago, the age of consent itself in Holland was only 12).

    Feminist shaming language will ensure that other countries will be quick to follow.  An example of this is playing out right now in Switzerland, one of the few places left in which 16 year olds can work as prostitutes.  16 year olds who are perhaps less than 13 months away from being able to serve as cannon fodder, and who in neighbouring Austria are deemed to be intelligent and experienced enough to be able to vote in general elections.

    A chain of catch-up is established.  Soon most countries in the EU will have prostitution limits set at 21.  This will then be extended to pornography, and to ’relationships in which authority is involved’ i.e. teacher/student relationships at which the cut off point is presently 18.  Then, finally, the age of consent itself will be revised upwards to 21.  Countries slow to adopt the new consensus will be shamed as ‘kiddy abuse capitals’, and hysteria regarding fears of ‘paedophile sex tourism’ will be whipped up to rouse the mob into forcing their governments to sign up.

    And then…well, you can see it coming now can’t you?  A ‘progressive nation’ will revise the minimum age for prostitution and/or pornography upwards to 25..the age of consent and extension of the definition of paedophilia will eventually follow..and the feminists and the ‘men’s rights supporters’ who secretly (or not) wish to have pre-marital sex criminilized will finally have gotten their wish.

    Let’s just hope there will still be anti-feminists who can hear the screams of the millions of men being raped and beaten in prison as a result of these laws…men with no other voice to shout against the feminist sexual trade union.

    Is Reddit Men’s Rights Getting Better? 

    I’ve been a harsh critic of reddit.com/r/mensrights in the past, but lately there does seem to be more genuine men’s rights supporters standing their ground in the comments section over there.  I’ve just returned from my summer hols (apologies for lack of updates and slow comment moderation), but whilst I had a quick scan of Reddit, I came across possibly the best comment I have ever read there.  It was in reply to a redditor’s post asking what percentage of sex offenders were genuine perverts, and what percentage where there for urinating against the wall of a nightclub  :

    also a lot of the sex offender terminology is an attempt to demonize the sexuality of men. terms like “predator” should really be applied to gold diggers, but they are reserved specifically for male sexuality by and large. since men are the biological pursuers of women, we can always be demonized as “predators” and “perverts” when in reality, it’s just a natural response to seeing a half naked girl. yet this feminist society shames male sexuality by telling us we are perverted for looking at huge half-covered, surgically enhanced tits. those tits obviously aren’t made bigger for breast feeding. they are made so that males WILL look.

    women are really trying to have their cake and eat it too at the expense of men. on every facet women want to be equal to men while ignoring all the responsibility that men have to bear… even in sex offender cases where the woman is a female, the story is portrayed as something entirely innocent and benign, unlike the exact same situation where the genders are reversed. yes, even where sex is concerned, men must bear all the shame and all the responsibility. no longer are we allowed to call women sluts. no longer are we allowed to blame scantily clad women when they get raped. everything is the fault of men. men are bad. women are good. water is wet. case closed.

    men need to start learning to say FUCK YOU to feminism. they need to start getting their balls back and learning to say NO to the entitlement mindset of today’s women raised under feminism’s permissive and abusive system. otherwise, men will forever fight a losing battle of trying to justify their natural sexual urges to women.

    (rollinon

    I’ve changed my mind about Reddit Men’s Rights.  I think that rather than ignoring it or trying to weaken it, the best policy of the (genuine) men’s rights movement would be to submit as many relevant articles and posts as possible, at the same time as engaging in upvoting genuine articles and downvoting those submitted by feminists or closet mangina idiot MRAs.