Kyle Payne Explains How He Used His Male Feminist Persona To Sexually Abuse Women & Children

You probably all remember Kyle Payne – before David Futrelle adopted his ‘Manboobz’ persona, Kyle was perhaps the most famous of all male feminist bloggers.  He became even more famous, or infamous, when he was convicted of photographing the breasts of an unconscious young female student who was under his care as he worked as a student counsellor (presumably he also molested her, although there was no evidence to convict him of this). His role as student counsellor to rape victims was gained largely through the reputation he had carefully built up for himself as an online male feminist.

Incredibly, spending time in prison for sexually abusing a girl in his trust did not prevent Kyle from resuming his pro-feminist blogging and anti-porn activism immediately upon his release.  However, it did appear that his blogging days were finally over when he was caught redhanded a second time – on this occasion, for fapping off to kiddy porn whilst out on probation.

Wrong.

Kyle is blogging again.  Of course he’s a changed mangina now – this time his feminism is for real. No I mean for real real.  For example, now he has the added kudos of being able to recount the formerly repressed story of how he was sexually abused as a boy, and how this inevitably turned him into someone who molests passed out college kids (after all, everybody knows that male child abuse victims always go onto become abusers themselves – a bit like werewolves).

Although some might find Kyle’s second resumption of post-custodial pro-feminist blogging to be somewhat offensive, he has at least been forced into publicly admitting that his past feminism was merely a ruse.  In fact, he has performed an important public service by explaining exactly how sex predators and paedophiles exploit the persona of male feminist simply in order to get themselves into situations where they can sexually abuse emotionally vulnerable young females.  I believe this is essential to understand if future Kyle Paynes, and other male ‘feminists’, are to be prevented from destroying yet more young lives :

My work against sexual violence and my reputation as a pro-feminist “good guy” accomplished two interrelated goals: first, I was able to exploit the courage I witnessed in other survivors and substitute it as my own (rather than dealing with my own experiences of abuse), and second, I distracted myself from the shame of fantasizing about women as sexual objects, and in the case of my victim, acting out that fantasy. It’s no coincidence that I traveled to two feminist anti-pornography events (in Boston and Austin), established an online presence as a pro-feminist anti-pornography blogger, and became an avid fan of women’s athletics in the nineteen months between committing my offense and being convicted in court. My involvement with feminism was not a total charade, but a large part of it was self-serving and exploitative of the trust I gained from others. I had a very specific idea of how I wanted my story to be told, and I sought to control the narrative.

Of course, the real question is, how could anyone expect that story to make sense? A man who takes advantage of a woman sexually, and who sexually objectifies women and girls through internet pornography, who also cares a whole lot about feminism? That’s a hypocrite. A liar. And a ticking time bomb. I wish I’d had the courage to call out my own bullshit, address this extreme contradiction in my values, and demonstrate some sort of integrity.

 

http://kylepayne.wordpress.com/2012/04/12/getting-and-staying-real/

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David Futrelle

Let’s hope that other male feminists can find the courage within themselves that Kyle Payne sadly was unable to.

See also :  Are All Male Feminists Sex Predators, Paedophiles, and Rapists?

David Futrelle to Teach College Girls ‘How to Have Better Sex’

38 thoughts on “Kyle Payne Explains How He Used His Male Feminist Persona To Sexually Abuse Women & Children

  1. Eric

    Somehow, feminist women in the Anglosphere seem to be turned on by thugs like Payne. Lying, sexual abuse, and criminal records don’t seem to disqualify any male in America from amassing a respectable harem. I remember when I was in school watching a bunch of girls holding vigils and breaking out crying when serial killer/rapist Ted Bundy was executed.

    Not only does Payne’s past history pose no obstacle for his future as a feminist blogger, it will probably swell his throng of adoring groupies.

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  2. Alan Vaughn

    I believe this is essential to understand if future Kyle Paynes, and other male ‘feminists’, are to be prevented from destroying yet more young lives :

    So Fraudtrelle, take note!
    Your quote mining and pathetic comments about MRA’s in general is a very flimsy disguise…

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    1. Eric

      Alan:
      I’m not sure if Fatrelle actually intends it to be a disguise: same with Payne and Schwyzer. Feminists teach hatred of cvilization (what they sneer at as ‘patriarchy’); but once female sexual behavior is no longer constrained by civilization, the women gravitate towards criminals, retards, and misfits like magnets.

      Consider that Futrelle once wrote against paedohysteria. Well, that didn’t win him any sexual favors from teenage groupies, so he became the fat, obnoxious, unhygenic lout we’ve all come to know. And now he has ‘Hookups with David’ freely advertised.

      Same with Payne and Schwyzer. They’ve got their ‘bad boy’ credentials all lined up for the ‘liberated’ female now. And they pour their derision on the ‘real men’ just to keep their groupies in line.

      As Welmer pointed out on the Spearhead recently, many of these mangina poltroons are envious of other males—so they side with females. But the sexual component is there too, these manginas need female validation to feel superior to other males. That’s a vicious circle for them though; because they have to lower themselves further and further to be acceptable to feminist women. As they do so, they recede further from actual manhood, which in turn fuels their envy even more; and so on.

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  3. jack

    Or could it be that such offenders always get a 2nd chance as long as they undertake to stay on their master’s payroll? It is very reminiscent of what happens when showbiz personalities get caught with drugs. They receive a token sentence plus a licence to go on doing drugs provided they tour the country to “raise awareness about drugs” and tell young people how they are sorry and how bad drugs are for everyone.

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    1. Alan Vaughn

      And that would probably be the most plausible explanation: If anyone else had been caught doing what Kyle was doing (especially in the paedohysterical US), they would still have YEARS to go before being allowed out of prison, let alone running a pro-feminist blog as a professional mangina, on his master’s payroll: the feminist police state…
      He probably also agreed to meeting minimum monthly quotas of misandry (anti-male propaganda) that must be expressed via his blog posts.

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      1. Eric

        Alan & Jack:
        And today, Fatrelle is keeping up his end of the quota in spades. LOL He’s having a big laugh-fest over the Colorado shootings, while denouncing MRAs as ‘insensitive’. Mostly he’s frothing about comments on the Spearhead suggesting that women have no interest in heroic men; but Anglobitch and a ‘game’ site’s come in for some attacks too.

        Some of his groupies made some interesting remarks. One pointed out that, since the shooter was a male, men had a duty to protect the women (!) Several others were indignant that grieving over those heroic men imposed on their grrrrl power: don’t these men realize that women have to get on with their lives? Humpf!

        Every time a feminist opens her mouth, a new MRA is born.

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        1. Alan Vaughn

          Some of his groupies made some interesting remarks. One pointed out that, since the shooter was a male, men had a duty to protect the women (!)

          I see… So this must therefore mean that if a woman flips her lid and decides to shoot a large group of people somewhere, all women must volunteer and instantly take on the role as human sheilds, protecting the men and boys?
          Applying her (I’ll assume that comment was made by a woman) ‘logic’: women have a duty to protect the men…

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          1. Eric

            Alan:
            I doubt it. A woman shooter would be ‘striking back at patriarchal oppression’. Any men who were shot would be presumed to have deserved it.

          2. Jack

            Warren Farrel attacked this fallacy that since men are the main perpetrators, it’s OK for men to be the main victims. When you’re physically attacked, it matter shit whether the attacker is a woman, a man or an elephant.

  4. MRA

    @Theantifeminists

    Even in sport older women are fearing of younger girls
    http://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2012/07/the-rise-and-fall-of-the-little-girl-gymnast/260123/

    http://jezebel.com/5928553/why-are-we-so-obsessed-with-gymnast-girl-wonders

    Recently, however, more female gymnasts are competing into their late 20s thanks to some significant changes to competition rules. (Funnily enough, the International Gymnastics Federation’s 1997 decision to raise the age minimum from 15 to 16 didn’t do much beyond superficially assuaging the concerns of the public, but other mandates have.) Before the late ’90s, all gymnasts had to compete on all 4 apparatuses: vault, uneven bars, balance beam, and floor. But now, a team can put their best three athletes on one apparatus and all scores count towards the total, meaning that older gymnasts can relax a bit and drop their weakest events. Also, the level of difficulty in routines plateaued over the past decade, so older athletes don’t have to stress about keeping up with new moves that only prepubescent teenagers can handle.

    Also here is Nadia Comaneci performing in 1976
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4m2YT-PIkEc

    Now tell me, you prefer watch this
    http://www.2008.nbcolympics.com/mm/photo/sports/general/22/70/57/227057_m11.jpg

    http://www.cctv.com/english/special/closingceremony/20080822/images/1219400756647_1219400756647_r.jpg

    Or this

    http://a.espncdn.com/media/motion/2012/0603/dm_120603_olympics_shawn_johnson.jpg

    http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-zpDb0L55eFg/T5WHyfh5oBI/AAAAAAAAA8w/n3NpM9s0oFM/s320/Shawn+Johnson_7.jpg

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    1. Alan Vaughn

      MRA,
      I think (although it was a very close decision – hahaha), I would prefer to watch the girl depicted in your second choice of photos over what looks to me, to be a MAN in the first choice.
      (LOL!) You always make me laugh…
      Thank you.

      Deluded old bags, just who do they think they are kidding?

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      1. Eric

        MRA & Alan:
        At a restaurant the other day, I was watching a volleyball game on the big screen: the US vs. South Korea. The contrast between the Korean girls and our somewhat mannish-looking Amazons was striking.

        I think that feminist culture over here is actually starting to infect not only feminine psychology, but their physiology as well. It seems that seems that American women are actually even starting to LOOK more and more like men, after trying to act like them all these years.

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        1. Alan Vaughn

          Yes they do, but I’ve always found that women who excel at sports are invariably lesbian feminists and generally misandrous bigots anyway…
          I don’t think it’s a new trend when discussing female sports, at least the ones that are of a high enough standard to be on TV.
          Lesbian rad-fems also seem to love (all women of course) sports. I suppose there must be other things in life they love, other than loving to HATE all things male…

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    2. theantifeminist Post author

      I remember watching a documentary on Nada Comaneci when I was growing up (so before full scale paedohysteria). I distinctly recall the narrator explaining how millions of men around the world fell in love with her while watching her perform her beautiful and graceful routines at the 76 Olympics.

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      1. Eric

        Antifeminist:
        It’s also hilarious watching how feminist dominated Hollywood drags out 40 & 50-something old bags and tries to palm them off on the public as sex symbols! Compare them with the young, vivacious actresses who were considered beautiful in our grandparents’ times.

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      2. Alan Vaughn

        Yeah, that narrator was not exaggerating – I was one of those millions watching her graceful and beautiful routines, live from Montreal. I was 19 years old then, thus by today’s criteria: I and all of those millions would be sneered at as perverts and filthy, sick paedophiles!
        LOL!

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        1. Eric

          Alan:
          That brings up another point about paedohysteria. A lot of MRAs contend that male sexual drive is stronger in younger men. I don’t think that’s actually true. Alongside the young wives our forefathers had, they producing children (and often remarrying and producing more kids) well into their 40s, 50s, and 60s. And in some cases, beyond that.

          It’s not at all uncommon in Arabia, where a man might have a harem of two or three wives, to be having children well into ‘old age’.

          I think that the so-called decline of male sexuality in the Anglosphere is a socially-driven problem. The abominable attitudes of feminist women; the lack of availability of younger women; the shaming and misandry pouring out of government and media—I think that a lot of male sexual drive just begins to atrophy after a certain point.

          Of course, the pharmaceutical cartels promote as much of this shaming as possible to sell their ‘ male enhancement’ potions. Which doesn’t do the men any good, since there’s nothing but bitter old hags around for them to have sex with anyway.

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          1. Alan Vaughn

            LOL!
            Eric, with some most of those bitter old hags that are around for us to (LEGALLY) have sex with, it would not matter what products the pharmaceutical cartels make available, they still won’t be able to make us have sex with them.

            You’re right: most of us don’t need any enhancement potions to mate with an attractive, nubile and fertile young woman, as that’s they way God (or nature if you’re agnostic), intended it to be.
            They can demonize and criminalize us and incarcerate, even execute ALL men if they must, but it won’t and cannot change!

            Why can’t they just accept the fact of nature that once they reach a certain age, they are not supposed to be having sex anyway….

      3. Eric

        Antifeminist & MRA:
        There was a hilarious on the news today. A dozen or so female athletes in the Olympics were organized and complaining loudly about media commentary relating to how fat they all are. Needless to say, all of these were from Anglosphere countries…LOL

        But then again, how often do women from Anglo countries ever win beauty contests?

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        1. theantifeminist Post author

          There was a hilarious on the news today. A dozen or so female athletes in the Olympics were organized and complaining loudly about media commentary relating to how fat they all are. Needless to say, all of these were from Anglosphere countries…LOL

          But then again, how often do women from Anglo countries ever win beauty contests?

          Ha, very true Eric.

          I was planning to write an Olympic related article tonight on a similar theme – about how the feminists who complain about ‘sexualised’ society teaching young girls to view sexy models and singers and even porn actresses as role models.

          British Olympic gold medalist wants to inspire a generation (of young girls) http://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/0/olympics/19132959

          Why is the ability to run fast or throw a spear far any more noble or worthy than being famous for being beautiful or sexy? Why is a top athlete any less reduced to a physical object than a model or a pornstar? Athletics, especially running, is physical talent at its rawest. Usain Bolt admitted that he doesn’t even train very hard. Beautiful models actually have to diet, apply skin cream, make up, keep fit to some extent. If feminist’s concern is that girls are taught that beauty is more important than brains, why do the not equally object when they are told that brawn is more important than brains?

          Sorry I’m a bit busy at the moment, and will be travelling for a few weeks soon, so I won’t be able to update very often. I hope you all still continue to comment though.

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          1. Eric

            Antifeminist:
            This year will the 60th ‘Miss Universe’ contest. Here’s how the Anglosphere has faired recently:

            CANADA: won in 2005, but the contestant appears to have been a Russian immigrant. Their last native-born winner, 1982.

            AUSTRALIA: won in 2004. Their first win since 1972.

            THE USA: not counting Porto Rico, our last winner was 1997 and she was Hawaiian. The last white American girl who won was 1980.

            NEW ZEALAND: their only win was 1983.

            THE UK: has never won.

            Latin American women have just over 1/3 of the titles; with Asians and Continental Europeans accounting for almost all the rest.

            Considering that radical feminism really took hold in the Anglosphere during the 1970s, and the last time Anglosphere women were seriously considered beautiful was the early 1980s, it’s hard not to draw a connection here.

  5. ray

    yeeikes is that really what fubar futrelle really looks like?

    that explains a lot

    if i looked like that and allowed myself to whale-out into such condition, mebbe my only hope would be to hate all other guys too… you know, the ones who didnt allow themselves to become Human Garbage Disposals and live in the corner booth at mcdonalds

    this punk should be ashamed of himself, taking out his own faults and insecurities and jealous rages on other, innocent men

    apparently the Grand Stategy is when his femistresses finally succeed in destroying masculinity, the baseline of maleness will then be lowered sufficiently that david appears . . . manly

    ok well mebbe the baseline will never git THAT low

    i’m filling a complaint with wordpress against this site, the photo of fem futrelle caused me to eject a perfectly good lunch

    he deserves what he’s become, nobody to blame but HIMSELF, i dont think his ride on the bitchbus will be so fun from here on out

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    1. Alan Vaughn

      Ray,
      His obesity and physical unattractiveness are his only attributes.
      It’s what he does and what he says that makes him the totally ugly and vile cretin he is.
      Couple that with the fact he’s a true paedocrite anyway, would possibly be one good reason why his true persona should be exposed to his entire pea-brained femi-troupe, who all worship him on his phony blog.

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      1. theantifeminist Post author

        It’s frightening to think that only 2 or 3 pictures of Futrelle as an adult are online, in each of them he looks utterly repulsive, and those presumably are his best photos!!

        Notice the wispy uneven attempt at a goatee…the fact that he is cross-eyed even with glasses…the obvious 100+ cream pies he must eat daily to maintain his Jabba the Hut physique…and then the hair….oh my God the hair – it looks like somebody has placed a cow pat upon his bald fat head!

        But as you say Alan, the real worry with Futrelle is his cognitive dissonance. He spends much of his time on his Manboobz blog accusing anyone who questions feminist paedohysteric laws to be paedophiles. Yet in his early days, every other article he wrote was about mocking and questioning child sex abuse hysteria. Add to that what we know about paedocrites, especially the male feminist variety (Kyle Payne, Hugo Shwartzer etc) and then his ‘ManbobzMeetups’ and delight in getting to teach young college girls ‘how to have sex’….I mean Jesus, I just hope somebody out there is keeping a close eye on him.

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        1. Alan Vaughn

          ….I mean Jesus, I just hope somebody out there is keeping a close eye on him.

          Well, there are at least 2 commentators from this blog who are… Like a couple of hungry old buzzards.

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          1. Alan Vaughn

            Also, how can a virgin mangina possibly appoint himself in a mentoring role for coaching young women on how to have better sex and expect his ‘students’ to actually take him seriously?
            Yet, it appears that at least a few of them did,
            which is testimony that my previous reply where I referred to his pea-brained femi-troupe was more than aptly stated.

    2. Eric

      Ray:
      I’ve imagined his house reeks of cat-litter and patchouli oil, with porno mags and empty fast-food containers laying all over the place. And he probably drinks cheap microbrews too.

      What he really reminds me of is one of those fat guys who dress in clown-suits and hang around girls playgrounds, warning them about the ‘bad men’ who’ve been seen in the neighborhood; and inviting them over to look at the kitties, and sit on Uncle Davy’s knee, and tell them about all their problems— you get the idea.

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      1. theantifeminist Post author

        What he really reminds me of is one of those fat guys who dress in clown-suits and hang around girls playgrounds, warning them about the ‘bad men’ who’ve been seen in the neighborhood; and inviting them over to look at the kitties, and sit on Uncle Davy’s knee, and tell them about all their problems— you get the idea.

        Absolutely spot-on Eric!

        BTW, to all readers, feel free to link to my articles on Fraudtrelle and the other male feminist paedocrites in the comments sections of MRA blogs (and even elsewhere). This helps to send them up the Google rankings.

        http://theantifeminist.com/david-futrelle-advocates-child-killing/

        http://theantifeminist.com/are-all-male-feminists-sex-predators-paedophiles-or-worse/

        http://theantifeminist.com/kyle-payne-used-male-feminist-persona-sexually-abuse-women-children/

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        1. Eric

          Antifeminist:
          BTW, I should point out that that same comment was deemed too ‘offensive’ and deleted under the new commentary policies instituted on the Spearhead. I’m glad that there are a few men’s blogs still left that aren’t buckling to the pressure of trying to ‘go mainstream.’

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  6. ray

    Ray, make sure you read BOTH of the pages I’ve linked to (above) to see the bigger picture.

    well unless it’s mandatory i’m gonna pass on that, do believe i’ve seen enough

    Clearly God has begun his punishments of mr futrelle a bit early

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    1. Alan Vaughn

      Ray,
      Fair enough, I can understand that… :)

      His phony blog reminds me of someone throwing bread to pigeons in a park, where he simply copy’s and pastes any random paragraph from any MRM blog onto his blog, writes some mindless comment (which I think is supposed to be humour). The copied / pasted text: effectively forming the ‘bread’. Then (the pigeons) his brainless followers all swoop on the ‘new post’ (bread) and collectively try to eat it – tearing it apart.

      The comments they make mean nothing – just worn-out repeated rhetoric, everyone’s been hearing for years, i.e. ‘chauvinist pigs’ etc…

      I don’t know which of the two entities is the biggest idiot is Fat-troll himself or, his large femi-troupe, that all feed off his childish attempts at ridiculing others?
      I’m inclined to think the latter, because Futrelle does at least have a reason for what he does – smoke and mirrors: to divert attention away from his TRUE persona. (Paedocrite).
      His childish femi-troupe however, are so useless they need a fat, repulsive looking excuse for a man to do would they should be capable of doing themselves: Mining quotes from blogs and C/P them onto their own blogs, for the purpose of trying to destroy the originators of the mined quotes.
      But nope, they’re too stupid even to do that, so they have to follow a fat, virgin paedocrite even to do that for them and it makes them feel good.

      Those pea-brained bigots should know that classic old saying: ‘each and anytime you point an accusing finger at somebody, there’s usually at least three fingers pointing back at YOU’.
      Yep, that’s all he does: he’s made it his fulltime career to find people (he says) are worse than him, to hold up for ridicule.

      I mean, has it never occurred to these air-head femi-bitches that:
      a) he’s a MAN,
      b) he lives alone: no woman in his life – a classic LOSER,
      c) he is always implying how MRA’s are losers (why)?
      d) His whole blog and a, b, c (above) mean he’s a needy, desperado, who is trying to get laid by ANY woman he can get!

      Are they that blind to the obvious??

      And all of them (feminists), love proclaiming that MRA’s are ‘frustrated middle-aged divorced losers (or even lifetime bachelors), that can’t get laid’.

      And yet they follow, even worship a man who not only has all of those traits but is grossly obese and unattractive to boot!

      I just hope his troupe of nasty, bitter femi-hag man-haters all agree to a meet-up with their (loser) hero…

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  7. ray

    lol yeah thx on the pass re further futrelle research… its a load off ;O)

    david reminds me of vawa joe, both were damaged psychologically early and are still really struggling, even in middle years

    certain not-very-nice interests use such people to do v bad things, to many millions of good folks — but all joe and david can focus on is their pain … stuck, venal, lacking humility before God to get unstuck

    fucked!

    joe got betrayed by trusted figures when he couldnt defend himself, and the only ease of pain is to inflict damage on as many other “fathers” (or potential fathers ie boys) as possible, sick shit

    imagine what a mondo warrior david would make if he renounced his silliness, faced his pain, praised God, took responsibility for his current, ah, status, and started taking positive action?

    you still wiith me alan? :O)

    david would trample the beest down! foxtrot on it 2… hed have instant cred w BOTH fems and your “men’s movement”

    if he had any sense, thats his ticket to ride

    hey i’ll pray on it ……… dont expect instant results on this one heh

    enyway i do understand your disgust w him, he’s disgusted w him too

    i hope david (and even joe, who is really in doublefuck trouble) turn it around, sure is plenty of work needs doing, here at the start of forever

    there are quite a few “invisible allies” around, privacies must be respected until such time (if any) they wish otherwise

    good things are ahead for boys and men, these little bumps will be sorted, cheers

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  8. jack

    Another revolting, but predictable peace of news:

    http://www.independent.ie/world-news/europe/dutrouxs-wife-given-transfer-to-convent-2643136.html

    Marc Dutroux is probably the most infamous child kidnapper in modern times. His wife was directly responsible for the death of the victims. Now she’s being paroled half into her 30-years jail sentence. At the time her sentencing alongside her husband was hailed as a victory for justice. She actually looks good emerging from women’s prison but even that is deemed too hard on her female persona. Now she’s supposed to enter a convent.

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    1. Eric

      I think there is some kind of masochistic impulse in White Knights and male feminists. Like Kyle Payne, they always think that supporting women earns them sexual favors and they always end up getting kicked in the crotch for their trouble.

      I’m willing to wager too that woman who’s accusing this guy will be back with the bad-boy who beat her up in less than two weeks.

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